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阅读理解Youmusthavebeentroubledbywhentosay“Iloveyou”becauseitisoneofthegreatestpuzzlesinourlife.Whatifyousayitfirstandyourpartnerdoesn'tloveyouback?
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Youmusthavebeentroubledbywhentosay“Iloveyou”becauseitisoneofthegreatestpuzzlesinourlife.

Whatifyousayitfirstandyourpartnerdoesn'tloveyouback?Oriftheydosayitbutyoudon'tfeeltheymeanit?Beingthefirsttodeclareyourlovecanbenerveracking(紧张)andriskyandcanleaveyoufeelingasvulnerableasaturtlewithnoshell.Butisthepersonwhosaysitfirstreallyinapositionofweakness?Doesn'titpaytoholdbackplayitcoolandwaituntiltheotherhalfhasshowntheirhandfast?

Areallygoodrelationshipshouldbeabout“beingfairandbeingequal”sayspsychologistSidneyCrown.“Butloveisseldomequal.”Allrelationshipsgothroughpowerstrugglesbuthesaysifaloveimbalancecontinuesforyearstherotwillsetin.“Thatfeelingof‘I'vealwayslovedyoumore’maybesubverted(颠覆,破坏)foratimebutitnevergoesawaycompletelyanditoftenemergesinsquabbling(大声争吵).”Inloveatleastthesilentwithholdingtypeisnotalwaysthemostpowerful.“Thestrongestoneinarelationshipisoftenthepersonwhofeelsconfidentenoughtotalkabouttheirfeelings”sayseducationalpsychologistIngridCollins.PsychosexualtherapistPaulaHallagrees.“Theonewiththeupperhandisoftenthepersonwhotakestheinitiative.Infactthepersonwhosays‘Iloveyou’firstmayalsobetheonewhosays‘I'mboredwithyou’first.”Hallbelievesthatmuchdependsonhow“Iloveyou”issaidandthemotivationofthepersonsayingit.“Isitsaidwhenthey'redrunk?Isitsaidbeforetheirpartnerfilesoffonholidayandwhatitreallymeansis‘Pleasedon'tbeunfaithfultome’?”Bysaying‘Iloveyou’theyarereallysaying‘Doyouloveme?’Ifsowouldn'titjustbemorehonesttosaythat.Collinsagreesthatintentioniseverything.“It'snotwhatissaidbuthowit'ssaid.Whatitcomesdowntoisthesincerityofthespeaker.”

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